Compatibility Chart for Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise
The Compatibility Report for
Birth Data for Nicole:
Nicole Kidman20 June 196712:00 PMHonolulu, Hawaii
Birth Data for Tom:
Tom Cruise3 July 196212:00 PMSyracuse, New York
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This Lovers Report is divided into 4 chapters.
Chapter 1 compares your temperaments and personalities. The issues described in Chapter 1 become particularly powerful if you are married or live together. Idiosyncrasies or quirks in another person's personality do not bother us as much if our relationship is a casual one. For example, if one person is neat and tidy and the other is sloppy, this is more likely to become a concern if you are married than if you are only seeing each other occasionally.
Pay close attention to the issues described in Chapter 2 because these are the most important themes in your relationship. For example, if themes of romance and sexual attraction are emphasized, then you can count on this relationship being a passionate one. However, if romance and sexuality are hardly mentioned at all, then this relationship will not be a passionate one. Note also that the material in Chapter 2 is presented roughly in order of importance, so that the material presented at the beginning of Chapter 2 is the most powerful.
Chapter 4 describes issues in your relationship of less importance than those presented in Chapter 2. Chapter 3 describes situations and circumstances that arise if you have a close, long-lasting relationship.
If a statement appears to contradict another statement, then your roles are likely to alternate. For example, a statement that Nicole is more aggressive than Tom, and another statement that Tom is more aggressive than Nicole, means that you alternate roles, with Nicole sometimes being the leader and Tom being the follower, and sometimes just the opposite. Also, read the statements carefully, as it is likely that a careful reading will reveal different kinds of aggressiveness or areas in which the aggressiveness is likely to express itself.
To make the most of this report, combine this astrological analysis with other things that you know about each other. For example, we have assumed that you are opposite-sexed (assuming that both of you are heterosexual, otherwise same-sexed). Physical attractiveness, age, religion, education, family and cultural background will affect your relationship as well. The material in Chapters 2, 3, and 4 of this report describes the magnetism between you, but does not describe your individual natures. For example, suppose that Chapter 2 makes little mention of romance and sexuality, but the Natal Reports for each of you indicate that each of you has extremely strong romantic and sexual desires. In this case, marriage is not likely to be successful! However, if romance and sexuality are not important to either of you, then the lack of passion in your relationship is not likely to be as much of a stumbling block.
Your birth chart interpretation is based on the positions of
the planets at the time of your birth. For the benefit of
students of astrology, these positions, along with other
technical information, are listed below:
Positions and Data for Nicole:
Sun position is 28 deg. 52 min. of Gemini
Moon position is 11 deg. 47 min. of Sagittarius
Mercury position is 20 deg. 53 min. of Cancer
Venus position is 14 deg. 15 min. of Leo
Mars position is 18 deg. 48 min. of Libra
Jupiter position is 5 deg. 09 min. of Leo
Saturn position is 11 deg. 29 min. of Aries
Uranus position is 20 deg. 31 min. of Virgo
Neptune position is 22 deg. 03 min. of Scorpio
Pluto position is 18 deg. 06 min. of Virgo
Asc. position is 21 deg. 13 min. of Virgo
MC position is 21 deg. 20 min. of Gemini
2nd cusp position is 20 deg. 03 min. of Libra
3rd cusp position is 20 deg. 35 min. of Scorpio
5th cusp position is 21 deg. 47 min. of Capricorn
6th cusp position is 21 deg. 58 min. of Aquarius
Tropical/PLACIDUS Standard time observed. GMT: 22:00:00
Time Zone: 10 hours West. Lat & Long: 21 N 18 25 157 W 51 30
Positions and Data for Tom:
Sun position is 11 deg. 14 min. of Cancer
Moon position is 1 deg. 05 min. of Leo
Mercury position is 19 deg. 45 min. of Gemini
Venus position is 19 deg. 17 min. of Leo
Mars position is 26 deg. 06 min. of Taurus
Jupiter position is 12 deg. 41 min. of Pisces
Saturn position is 10 deg. 01 min. of Aquarius
Uranus position is 27 deg. 55 min. of Leo
Neptune position is 10 deg. 49 min. of Scorpio
Pluto position is 8 deg. 01 min. of Virgo
Asc. position is 26 deg. 10 min. of Virgo
MC position is 25 deg. 27 min. of Gemini
2nd cusp position is 21 deg. 25 min. of Libra
3rd cusp position is 21 deg. 32 min. of Scorpio
5th cusp position is 29 deg. 36 min. of Capricorn
6th cusp position is 0 deg. 12 min. of Pisces
Tropical/PLACIDUS Daylight Savings Time observed. GMT: 16:00:00
Time Zone: 5 hours West. Lat & Long: 43 N 02 53 76 W 08 52
Chapter 1A Comparison of Temperaments and Life Stylesthat Affect Your Ability to Harmonize with Each Other
Nicole's Sun in Gemini and Tom's Sun in Cancer:
Tom is usually the one who takes care of family affairs -writing letters to family members, visiting family members, providing the emotional support and care needed by children (and adults!), and, in general, is more attentive to people's feelings and emotional needs. Tom is also more attached to the past, fond memories, places, and friends than Nicole. Sometimes Nicole is indifferent to the concerns of Tom, and often simply cannot become as emotionally involved about an issue or situation as Tom. Even if Nicole is a caring, sensitive person, you still find concerns are expressed differently and are directed less personally than those of Tom. Nicole often wants to approach problems intellectually by discussing them whereas Tom seeks a change in attitude and feels that talking often evades the underlying problems.
Many of the misunderstandings between you arise because Nicole is more emotionally detached and rational, while Tom is more subjective, emotionally involved, and unable to be as articulate and "reasonable" as Nicole is. Paradoxically, you are attracted to one another for the same reason! Nicole's mental agility and wit appeals to Tom, Tom's sensitivity and depth of feeling is attractive to Nicole, and you both have much to learn from one another.
Nicole's Moon in Sagittarius and Tom's Moon in Leo:
Both of you are basically friendly, cheerful souls and you reinforce one another's essential optimism, generosity, and playfulness. Much emotional harmony exists between you. Together you feel expansive and enterprising, and you enjoy games, sports, gambling, carousing, and life in general!
Some differences may arise between you, though. Nicole is more restless, more of a wanderer than Tom, who is more constant and steady emotionally. Nicole needs to feel free and cannot tolerate being completely domesticated or tethered to a possessive partner. Tom, on the other hand, is loyal and wholehearted in love, and wants the complete attention and devotion of a partner.
Also, Nicole is rather blunt and tactless at times, which can offend Tom's strong pride. Tom takes Nicole's candid statements very personally, very much to heart, whether Nicole means them that way or not - yet Tom will often pretend that nothing is wrong (again, the strong pride!). For the most part, however, you suit one another very well!
Chapter 2Major Themes in the Relationship: What Brought You Together
Tom's Sun Square Nicole's Saturn:
Nicole must be very careful not to harshly criticize or judge Tom. There is a strong tendency for Tom to feel blocked, frustrated, and discouraged by Nicole. Typically, Nicole will feel surprised by Tom's feelings of frustration and anger, and feel that Tom is just being overly sensitive to criticism. There is an element of truth to both viewpoints: Nicole tends to be too critical of Tom and Tom tends to be too sensitive to the criticism; the combination can be disastrous! Tom may try to ignore the problem, but ignoring the problem will not cause the problem to disappear. This is a relationship that can help both of you mature a great deal; you are able to build a secure, stable life together and face many challenges and responsibilities together that you have been trying to avoid. However, the tendency to become overly concerned with your responsibilities and be too conservative, cautious, and restrictive towards each other must not get out of hand, or you will both feel severely confined and restricted by being together.
Nicole's Sun Sextile Tom's Uranus:
There is a light-hearted, buoyant quality to your relationship that makes you really enjoy each other's company. You spark each other's sense of humor and you enjoy joking and "horsing around" with each other. You also appreciate each other's creative interests and encourage each other to pursue original, creative activities. Nicole especially feels freer and less inhibited by being with Tom.
Nicole's Asc. Square Tom's Mercury:
Frequently the two of you view a situation very differently, and you frequently respond to events very differently. Unfortunately, you are also inclined to feel that your approach is superior and feel very frustrated that you cannot enlighten your partner. Very often, also, this annoying situation is triggered by a relatively minor incident. Try to better appreciate your partner's point of view.
Tom's Asc. Square Nicole's Sun:
Although the two of you are strongly attracted to each other, you often "rub each other the wrong way". Your personal tastes and interests are frequently different. If you try to convince each other that your life style, tastes, and interests are better than your partner's, then you will frustrate each other and fail to appreciate and really understand each other. You must accept the fact that the two of you are different people with your own unique qualities. Don't try to force each other to adopt your own tastes, hobbies, and interests, as it will only make matters worse.
Nicole's Moon Square Tom's Jupiter:
You enjoy joking and kidding each other, and you spark each other's sense of humor. In fact, it is sometimes difficult to be serious with each other; the tendency to be light-hearted and jovial is too irresistible. Also, you are very supportive and encouraging to each other, but you tend to be overly optimistic about each other and make promises that you cannot fulfill. You encourage each other to be extravagant, sometimes too much so.
Tom's Mercury Square Nicole's Uranus:
You often say things to shock or shake up each other, and you can get very high-strung when you are together. You tend to set a fast pace. This provides a good deal of excitement in your lives, and you will find yourselves periodically jumping on a new bandwagon, experimenting with a new idea, or exploring new alternatives. However, the impatience with each other is likely to cause sudden arguments and anger to flare.
Tom's Mercury Square Nicole's Pluto:
Your conversations have a deep, probing quality. There is a strong tendency to attempt to coerce your partner to understand your point of view and agree with you. Nicole may attempt to dominate Tom's thinking, or radically alter Tom's view of things.
Tom's Mercury Trine Nicole's Mars:
You inspire each other to refine and clarify your ideas, plans and strategies. You are an effective team in research, writing, or business pursuits. You also help each other to successfully implement a plan or follow through on an idea until it manifests as a successful product or creative work. You also have spirited, feisty debates with one another.
Tom's Venus Square Nicole's Neptune:
Your love for each other has a very dreamy, idealistic, and romantic quality. You are infatuated with each other, sometimes almost hypnotized by each other. You tend to have glamorous and idealistic notions of each other that are far removed from reality. This relationship is prone to major disappointments when you each discover that your partner is not as perfect as imagined. Disillusionment and disappointment are likely, but you can mitigate this tendency if you allow yourself to enjoy the dreamy romanticism without projecting your wildest fantasies onto your partner, believing you have found the companion of your dreams.
Tom's Venus Sextile Nicole's Mars:
There is a strong romantic attraction between you and you instinctively know how to please and make one another happy sexually. Both tenderness and passion are present between you, so this relationship can be immensely fulfilling to both of you!
Chapter 3Destiny and Final Outcome of Your Relationship
Composite Sun Square Moon:
There is a basic undeniable tension between the two of you that will be both creative and irritating. It is apt to manifest itself in small ways, often in matters of personal comfort (such as the temperature each one prefers the thermostat set to, or a dislike for one another's domestic habits), but also in more profound ways, for instance: an inability to accept the other's family or familial background and traditions. Some resistance to your relationship by either or both of your families or old circle of friends can also be expected, at least initially. A marked degree of unease exists between the two of you on these subtle issues and this prevents you both from totally submerging yourselves into this relationship. In numerous subtle ways you are constantly reminded of your "otherness" and differences from one another, and you'll be both fascinated and frustrated by these fundamental differences.
One of the purposes of your relationship is to challenge each of you to encounter (and even embrace) attitudes and aspects of life which your partner displays, and which are essentially very foreign to you.
Composite Sun Conjunct Mercury:
Yours is an intellectual relationship, among other things. Exchanging thoughts, studying together, sharing information, talking and bantering, turning one another on to new books or ideas, sparking one another's curiosity and interest in the world - all of these are important aspects of your relationship. A certain detachment and the ability to think about and talk about what is going on between you are also highlighted. Put simply, becoming more conscious or more informed and educated is a significant reason the two of you are drawn together.
Composite Moon Square Mercury:
Inevitably your communications with one another will be strongly colored by emotion, emotional prejudice and bias, and subjective elements, all of which often interfere with rational discussion. Part of the purpose of your relationship, in fact, has to do with examining your feelings, coming to understand them, and becoming aware of some of your basic assumptions and habitual beliefs which you may have never questioned before. Differences of opinion, especially on emotionally-charged issues such as child rearing, how to celebrate holidays and so on, will enable you both to understand your roots, as well as your prejudices. If you can respect one another's opinions and preferences, rather than get defensive, you'll find that you can tell one another very personal, intimate details of your lives, and end up feeling quite close to each other as a result.
Composite Moon Sextile Mars:
You have an active, energizing relationship, one that enables you both to express your emotions very directly and openly. Whatever problems you do have, are not due to emotional stagnation or boredom.
Inevitably there will be emotional outbursts and honest, naked expressions of feeling. Your family life (if indeed you share this) is apt to be noisy, rambunctious, lively, and to have its share of conflicts. So if either of you needs peace and calmness all of the time, the energy generated between the two of you may be a bit too much to handle at times.
As a couple you are more competitive, outgoing and active than either of you may be individually.
Composite Venus Square Neptune:
Romantic illusions and fantasies, erotic imagination and dreams of perfect Love all play a crucial role in your relationship. To avoid being severely disappointed and disillusioned, it would be good to recognize from the start that your partner is not a Goddess or God, is not meant to rescue or save you from your problems, and is, in fact, a lot less perfect that you believe! More likely possibilities, such as pretending to be something that you are not, or trying to rescue you partner from his or her own predicaments, can be equally trouble-producing. Either or both of you are apt to feel you were seduced or lured into the relationship under false pretenses, but probably you simply fooled yourselves!
If you are willing to accept the less than beautiful and ideal aspects of one another, an authentic relationship based on compassion as well as eroticism can evolve. If you can't do this, the more tragic implications of the phrase "love is blind" will certainly become clear to you both in time.
Composite Saturn Opposition Uranus:
In this relationship the forces of change, freedom, and newness severely conflict with the urge for permanence, stability, predictability, and security. For the most part, this means one of you will have expectations, rules, or a generally more cautious way of being which inhibits and feels very restrictive to the other. There will be a tremendous amount of tension between you over these issues and if they cannot be resolved, the frustration will mount to the point where one of you will make a sudden, disruptive departure. Another result of this irritable tension is that others may find it uncomfortable to be with you when you are together.
One of you may clamp down on the other's need for adventure or looser style and create antagonism and rebellion. Or one of you may flaunt your independence, and deliberately provoke the other's insecurities, also causing great harm. Speaking honestly, releasing your tensions on a regular basis, and being tolerant of the other's ways can alleviate the stress somewhat, though it will be an ongoing issue in your relationship.
Composite Saturn Opposition Pluto:
Together the two of you will confront some of the most severe difficulties of your lives. A painful loss, and/or very stressful, oppressive circumstances will test you to the limits. While these circumstances may appear unjust or cruel, it would be best if you do not resist. Salvage what is good and as graciously as possible, relinquish what is being taken from your lives.
Periodically throughout your relationship, it may appear that all is lost, that you have nothing together. Toughing it out through these times will show you another side, and if you endure you may well have something of lasting value. Certainly, though, it won't be easy on any level.
Chapter 4Other Themes in Your Relationship
Nicole's Sun in Tom's 10th house,
Tom's Sun in Nicole's 10th house:
Career goals and ambitions play a major part in your relationship. You encourage each other to succeed in your aspirations and together you are likely, through much effort and persistence, to climb the ladder of success. You may form a business partnership or work together closely in a joint effort.
Nicole's Moon in Tom's 3rd house:
There is a natural smoothness and ease with which Nicole can express ideas and concern to Tom, which fosters a warm friendship between you.
Tom's Moon in Nicole's 11th house:
You share a light-hearted, outgoing, friendly relationship. Even if your relationship becomes very close and intimate, you maintain a reasonable degree of objectivity about each other. The friendly feeling of camaraderie that you share makes your relationship enjoyable and fun, although Nicole may feel that you don't take enough time to share inner feelings and deeper concerns.
Nicole's Mercury in Tom's 10th house:
Nicole takes a great interest in Tom's career and ambitions, and has lots of ideas on how Tom can reach goals and aspirations. The two of you enjoy planning together and sharing ideas, and there is a good chance that you will work together in some kind of business together.
Tom's Mercury in Nicole's 9th house:
Tom's more philosophical or religious side is brought out in this relationship, and Tom tends to assume the role of teacher or sage. If Nicole sympathizes with Tom's views or is impressed by Tom's wisdom, the relationship goes well but if Nicole perceives Tom as being foolish or illogical, then a large gap in communication develops.
Nicole's Venus in Tom's 11th house,
Tom's Venus in Nicole's 11th house:
You enjoy going out together and you will develop a love for the same friends, groups, and social activities. As a couple, you are outgoing and friendly, and will meet lots of new people and share many new experiences together.
Nicole's Mars in Tom's 1st house:
Nicole comes on strong, almost aggressively to Tom, and this relationship is a lively, dynamic one. Nicole spurs Tom to do more and be more. Tom may feel inspired by Nicole, but may also feel that Nicole is too pushy.
Tom's Mars in Nicole's 9th house:
Tom challenges Nicole's philosophical viewpoints and religious beliefs. There is the possibility that Tom will try to force individual views on Nicole.
Nicole's Jupiter in Tom's 11th house:
Circumstances develop so that the two of you become very active together in community affairs, socializing, or political/social action. Together the two of you explore many social circles and develop a wide variety of friends and acquaintances.
Tom's Jupiter in Nicole's 6th house:
Tom loves to be of practical service and help to Nicole, though possibly reluctant to help out others. Tom takes a great interest in Nicole's health and overall well-being, and helps take care of day-to-day chores.
Nicole's Saturn in Tom's 7th house:
Tom feels that Nicole is a person who will be trustworthy, stable, mature, and committed to the relationship, and there is, indeed, a high level of security and stability that can be counted on in this relationship. Both of you feel comfortable making commitments to each other so if romantic attraction is also strong, then there is an inclination towards marriage. However, over time Tom may also find that Nicole is critical of Tom's friends and discourages Tom from participating in many social activities. It is also likely that the two of you will discover that you have different views of what marriage is and what the commitment of marriage entails, and you may find that you have to work hard at structuring your relationship in a manner that is satisfying to both of you. For example, one of you may have more liberal views on marriage and the other be more traditional and old-fashioned.
Tom's Saturn in Nicole's 5th house:
This relationship causes Nicole to question personal skills and competence a great deal. Tom feels that Nicole is capable of so much more, and is inclined to feel that Nicole is wasting valuable talent. Tom would like to see Nicole be more serious and less superficial in creative work. Over time, Tom is likely to nag Nicole to concentrate more on expressing unused personal talents. Rather than inspire Nicole to do more, this may only serve to make Nicole feel inadequate and dissatisfied with any accomplishments or progress made. With care and consideration, Tom can, indeed, spur Nicole on to greater self-mastery and development, but the process is more delicate than Tom may at first realize. Great care - and unconditional love - is needed on Tom's part to achieve this.
Nicole's Uranus in Tom's 12th house,
Tom's Uranus in Nicole's 12th house:
You force one another to reconsider many of your basic assumptions about life. Questions of religion and ethics come to the fore, and both of you are likely to break free from limiting attitudes and beliefs instilled from early childhood.
Nicole's Neptune in Tom's 3rd house:
Frequently, the two of you misunderstand each other regarding some practical detail or specific instruction. Without realizing it, Nicole tends to communicate less clearly to Tom than to others, and does not concentrate as much on the practical nitty-gritty of what is being communicated. Tom, in turn, responds by being slightly distracted and less attentive to the factual details being communicated.
Tom's Neptune in Nicole's 2nd house:
If you are married, you need to be careful about how you jointly handle your finances. Tom may encourage a joint investment that proves to be unsuccessful. Tom tends to be idealistic and impractical regarding your joint assets.
Nicole's Pluto in Tom's 12th house,
Tom's Pluto in Nicole's 12th house:
There is a deep emotional and psychic tie between you that may not be apparent in the early stages of your relationship, but over time you begin to work together very closely on matters of very deep, personal concern. Together you uncover a lot of previously hidden problems and limitations stemming from early childhood. You probe any fears, phobias, or guilt that limits your ability to live a happy, fulfilling life.
Nicole's Asc. Trine Tom's Mars:
Attraction between you is very strong. Your goals and interests harmonize very well, and you are naturally inclined to join together in shared interests, projects, goals, and work.
Tom's Moon Conjunct Nicole's Jupiter:
You both really enjoy each other's company. You put each other in a good mood and an optimistic, friendly, jovial atmosphere develops when you get together. You may have been friends for some time before you became lovers. You are a very likeable couple and, as a couple, you are very sociable , hospitable, and expansive. Your bring out the generous side of one another, and are very nurturing and protective towards each other.
Nicole's Moon Square Tom's Pluto:
The emotional bond between you is very complex. Sexual attraction is strong and you find each other to be very magnetic or highly charismatic. But you also will find yourself becoming uncomfortable with various deeply ingrained habits and attitudes of each other as you learn more about each other. You are simultaneously attracted and repulsed by each other. You evoke intense emotional responses from each other and if you want this relationship to be a long-lasting one, you will have to be very careful because a blowup in the relationship can be triggered by jealousy, acts of unkindness, or simply the unwillingness of either of you to change deeply ingrained habits that are offensive to each other. In short, this is an emotionally intense relationship that blows hot and cold, drives you to emotional extremes, and challenges your deepest, most personal and important attitudes and habits.
Nicole's Moon Sextile Tom's Saturn:
The level of mutual trust and respect for each other is very high. You are very responsible and honest to each other. You are able to communicate your deepest concerns, values, priorities, and moral beliefs with a candidness and frankness that is impossible with most other people. It is likely that your relationship will be a long, stable one.
Nicole's Venus Opposition Tom's Saturn:
Emotional distance or coolness, and an inability either to show love, or to feel sufficiently loved and appreciated are problems you are likely to face in this relationship. Nicole, in particular, can feel dominated, stifled, or inhibited socially and emotionally by Tom. There may be other, more positive astrological influences to offset this basically difficult dynamic between the two of you, but even so there are times when you feel lonely and unfulfilled by being together. Tom must try to avoid being too demanding, possessive, withholding, or controlling towards Nicole. Nicole needs to be with other friends sometimes, and should go off and do something fun and frivolous once in a while.
Tom's Mars Opposition Nicole's Neptune:
You can act very silly and childish together. When the two of you get together, you love to let your imaginations run wild. You have difficulty accomplishing anything of a serious or mundane nature together, and you prefer to explore artistic, religious, and metaphysical areas, rather than focus on more mundane affairs. If there is a physical or romantic attraction to each other, you are likely to feel mesmerized by each other, and fall into a very dreamy romance. Your sexual life also has a strong element of fantasy.
Nicole's Saturn Sextile Tom's Saturn:
You act dependably and responsibly toward one another and coordinate well in working toward common goals, meeting obligations, making plans for future financial security, or any practical business. You are a very solid team and can fulfill long-term commitments to one another without feeling burdened or unhappy about it.
End of Compatibility Chart for Nicole Kidman and Tom Cruise.